Poem

The Cycle of Love and Worry Across Generations

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Hein Min resents the protagonist’s mother’s constant calls; now she nags her husband but learned to understand through a late-night wait and a funny laugh, exclusively for Different Truths.

When I was young,
mother would phone me,
again and again,
every after fifteen minutes,
to come back home
when I had been outside
long enough with my friends.
The same went for
when I went to watch zat pwe(s)
when Thadingyut came
that would curtain down
only at the rise of dawn.
I told her off on the phone.
Mother was always holding
me in shackles.
She never understood me.
I was upset with mother
when I was young.
Now, when I am in my 26,
I am with my little hubby.
Last Saturday,
he attended a late-night puja,
at the temple in the next street
from where he lives.
I called him.
“He has left his phone at home,”
my mother-in-law answered.
The time was 11,
slowly half an hour

went by, then came 12.
Inside, my belly was churning.
I was tossing and turning in bed.
I nagged her with
intermittent phone queries.
Every time,
she reassured me of
his safe return.
At last, at 1 a.m,
my little hubby
helloed me on the phone.
I scolded him half weeping.
He only laughed at me;
his cursory laughter rippled through.
That night, I dozed off,
after sweats, pains and
dropping tears.
Note:

Thadingyut: The seventh month of the Myanmar calendar.

Zat pwe: A kind of dramatic performance which includes singing and dancing.

Picture design by Anumita Roy


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