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Nikita reminds us that the relationship with ourselves is paralleled and mirrored in our vibes that attract the same kind of people. An insight exclusively for Different Truths.
How is your relationship with yourself?
How are your relationships with others?
Do you see a correlation?
Have you ever thought why all your relationships exemplify the relationship you had with yourself?
The Universe perfectly aligns us with individuals, who reflect our deepest beliefs, values and fears. Our relationships are our spiritual teachers as they magnify what is transpiring inside of us. The greatest secret is that everyone is your mirror. If you have happy and healthy relations with others, you obviously have a positive relationship with yourself and vice versa.
The Universe perfectly aligns us with individuals, who reflect our deepest beliefs, values and fears. Our relationships are our spiritual teachers as they magnify what is transpiring inside of us. The greatest secret is that everyone is your mirror. If you have happy and healthy relations with others, you obviously have a positive relationship with yourself and vice versa. Others are only reflecting your consciousness. What annoys you in another can show you the unhealed parts of your own spirit. What motivates you in another shows what who you really are at the core.
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with,” stated Jim Rohn.
Identify those five people in your life.
It could be your family, friends or colleagues. How do they make you feel? Happy, sad, or stressed. Choose carefully. Personalities, habits, words and traits do rub off. Make sure they are the ones who uplift you, support you and inspire you. If not, find new people.
It could be your family, friends or colleagues. How do they make you feel? Happy, 
sad, or stressed. Choose carefully. Personalities, habits, words and traits do rub off. Make sure they are the ones who uplift you, support you and inspire you. If not, find new people.
Are you tired of meeting the same people in different bodies?
Think of the first human who deceived you. Did that ever happen again? Was there something shared between the two occurrences? The recurrence of the same betrayals and same insecurities can leave one baffled. Only when you are in perfect harmony with your soul, you will understand a sequence. The same people in distinct bodies are unlearned lessons. As Pema Chodron had beautifully said- “Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know”. Often, we align with people who trigger our unhealed wounds and instead of healing ourselves; we create more conflict. A majority of the time it is not the present situation that hurts but an unhealed wound of the past.
Think of the first human who deceived you. Did that ever happen again? Was there something shared between the two occurrences? The recurrence of the same betrayals and same insecurities can leave one baffled. Only when you are in perfect harmony with your soul, you will understand a sequence.
Heal yourself and the world turns into a better place
The more you condemn something in another, the more it reveals to you the lack of acknowledgement of your own vulnerabilities. For instance, if you dislike hypocrisy, you will notice that you have been a hypocrite too. If you condemn someone who judges others, you are judgmental too on some level of your existence. You cannot like or dislike anything if it is not within you.
In the moments when a past trauma hits back, go within. Connect with yourself and try to channel it back to the original memory.
In the moments when a past trauma hits back, go within. Connect with yourself and try to channel it back to the original memory. Ask your mind to show it to you. Allow yourself to look at the situation as a higher self. You will discover the truth of the situation. Release the suffering. This is where your peace will arise…
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