Ritambhara identifies grief and tells us how to deal with it. An exclusive for Different Truths.

There could be no tragedy bigger than losing near and dear ones. Everybody who is born in this world has to die. It’s the rule of nature and nobody can escape from this. Losing our near and dear ones is a seminal moment in everybody’s life whether it is anticipated, for instance, after a long illness or an accidental one. The departure of someone who has been so close to you and has looked after you since you were an infant is a fundamental point in our lives. The emotional path is taken by us, our reactions and the way we are able to overcome this irreparable loss depend on our age and the nature of the relationship we had with that person.  There are people who find it very hard to overcome such a situation and might get subjected to depression, whereas there are those who would take no time and build them up quickly and face the world as if they have had not lost anyone.

The emotional path is taken by us, our reactions and the way we are able to overcome this irreparable loss depend on our age and the nature of the relationship we had with that person.

Some people seem to get out of such situations easily, whereas there are others who find it really hard. Which one of these is a good approach? How we tackle an irreparable loss is how we think and what we aim at. Those who let go, find it as a way to overlook the loss they incur on the emotional front. Or such people might be courageously facing the world.

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No matter what, since death is a universal truth, everybody must face at some point in their life.

No matter what, since death is a universal truth, everybody must face at some point in their life. It all depends on how we cope with such a loss. Different people find different ways to tackle it. Nothing under such a situation can be said to be absolutely right or wrong.

Let your inner world flow with the constantly changing outer world

Change is the only constant in the world. It is undeniable that life is constantly changing and would never stay the same, but going with the flow of life is not necessarily easy or straightforward.

Everybody has to change with the outer world constantly changing and transforming and resistance to this undoubtedly can be a really challenging thing.

Everybody has to change with the outer world constantly changing and transforming and resistance to this undoubtedly can be a really challenging thing. Under such circumstances, some people might get out of alignment and it becomes difficult for them to respond to life in real time. They don’t let it go and are either stuck in the past or are thinking about a future that would be brighter. So, they lose their present moment and waste it in every sense.

Let it go emotionally

Trapped emotions only keep the individuals stuck in the past. To lead life to the fullest one has to give up these trapped emotions and live in the present.

It is tough for some people to let it go emotionally. But for some people, intellect responds in a certain way and they are able to cope with any adverse situation they have to face in their life. Hence, it is necessary to allow the emotion to flow. Trapped emotions only keep the individuals stuck in the past. To lead life to the fullest one has to give up these trapped emotions and live in the present.

 Conclusion

Since the past is out of your hands and the future is based on what you do in the present, it is better to focus on the present.

Individuals, who can live in their present, deal with their grievances in a better way. Since the past is out of your hands and the future is based on what you do in the present, it is better to focus on the present. There is no use lingering to the past or dreaming about the future. Let go your trapped emotions and you would find yourself in a better position to deal with your grievances.

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